Promising job candidate gets a lowball offer, rejects it and leaves arrogant hiring manager aghast in front of his boss: ‘Never sell yourself short’

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  • "I rejected a low offer and the interviewer took it personally"

    I still can't get over this weird interview experience I had about a year ago. I was looking for a new job in tech support, and a friend of mine recommended me to a company that was a fifteen-minute drive from my apartment, which was a huge plus.
  • The first few interviews went fine, but a few red flags popped up. First, they were very secretive and tight-lipped about the salary range.
  • Second, the hiring manager, a guy a few years older than me, had an ego the size of the sky.
  • After the final round, they finally made an offer, and it was a really bad one - much lower than my previous job.
  • I tried to negotiate, but they wouldn't budge an inch. The guy tells me, with complete seriousness, 'You seem accustomed to the salaries of the big tech companies in the city.
  • Here in the suburbs, we can't pay those numbers.' This 'suburb,' by the way, was a new, fancy, and expensive business park.
  • I told him I needed time to think, and he acted as if it was a done deal.
  • Anyway, fast forward two days, and I got on a call with them to tell them my decision.
  • The strange thing was that his boss was also on the call, probably to watch him close the deal.
  • The hiring manager was just as arrogant as before, and it was obvious he thought this was his victory lap.
  • You could almost hear his jaw hit the floor when I politely rejected the offer. The change in his tone was drastic.
  • It was as if I had personally insulted him. He asked if I was serious, then got defensive, and started ranting a bit about how I was making the mistake of my life and wouldn't find a better opportunity.
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  • He finally calmed down a bit and said he would respect my decision, but he had one question.
  • He asked me, completely seriously, 'Did I do something wrong? Is the problem me?'. His boss was dead silent the whole time.
  • I just repeated that the salary wasn't right for me and left it at that. Honestly, after all his arrogance throughout the process, I couldn't help but feel a little bit of schadenfreude.
  • Has anyone else ever had an interviewer take rejection so personally? Edit: I would have abruptly ended the interview after the insult regarding pay.
  • Employers need to realize that an employee is providing them a service. they don't like getting turned down.
  • Prospective employees should enter interviews with the mindset that they are the ones who ultimately determine the salary.
  • The world of interviews has changed now due to the introduction of Al tools. I believe they are truly useful because they genuinely save time and give you suitable answers for every question with complete ease, saving you from excessive interview preparation.
  • Companies aren't doing you a favour by hiring you. They need you for the service you provide.
  • Never sell yourself short.

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